Parenting Skills: Encourage your Child in Self-Worth
When considering starting a family, one thing stands out: the need to ensure that, as you begin having children, you commit to the responsibility of raising them with the knowledge that they are important and that they see themselves as worthy. A healthy self esteem can be a safeguard against challenges the world will present to anyone. When the child has a strong self esteem, they will be able to handle conflicts and reject any negative pressures from their peer group.
Children that are comfortable with themselves also reveal a well-rounded attitude, able to better excel in whatever is presented to them. By contrast, children who experience low self esteem tend to allow situations to overwhelm them. They are much more easily frustrated and can become anxious and irritable. They also display symptoms of an inability to solve issues, as well as become withdrawn or depressed.
Remember, you are the number one influence on your child, especially during their first five years before they even go off to school. It is vital you express the fact that they are loved and needed. You are their safeguard against low self esteem and the negative impact that can have on their lives. Whenever you can, give them praise for a job well done or for at least putting forth the effort. This should be easy since they already possess natural tendencies (not to mention the fact that they are your children!). Keep in mind though to be honest with your praise and not to praise them just because you are supposed to; they will see right through that.
Also, let them know you are not perfect and that you make mistakes. By being transparent in this regard, you help them to know that it is okay to fail once in awhile, especially when you can teach them how to correctly handle failure by learning to build on those experiences for future successes! Be sure your children set realistic goals; this is the best defense against repeated failure. Again, look for natural tendencies and foster those qualities by encouraging them to pursue their interests with gusto.
By ensuring that you are intimately involved with your children’s activities, you will keep the line of communication open to talk through issues they may encounter, thus helping them deal with any problems in a positive manner. Anything you can do to build character and positive self esteem in your children is a great formula for them succeeding in life.
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